standing up
pre-marital sex has been the topic of much conversation in the past few days. I talked about it with Anu and Monic during lunch yesterday, and then after bible study for a bit with James... It's hard enough being a young adult in today's society and being against pre-marital sex... but yesterday I realized to a further extent how much harder it is for guy of my age to have the same stance that I do. If you're a girl (which I'm sure you know I am) it's not so bad. Alot of people say that "I'm saving myself" and people just accept their answer and leave them alone... but if you're a guy, you get ridiculed, called a wuss (or a "fag"), get your masculinity questioned and what not. I just really think that sucks for them. I don't understand why it should be so much harder for guys than girls to have the same stance on something... But you know, more power to the guys that have the courage to voice their views and stick with it... you have my respect...