seems that I forgot to mention that I'm an immature shmuck in my last post. Don't bother disagreeing, I already convinced one person so that's enough for me... shmuck... what a great word... somethign about the way how it rolls off your tounge... oh and among other things, I dwell on stuff to much too... I must give props to asif though for giving it to me straight without any b.s. ... I must admit that I was initially pissed, but then realized the validity of his statement... I don't have the guts to pull out of prom anymore... so much for being a non-conformist... looking for attention? damn straight. when you're one person out of over 6 billion... who wouldn't want a little affirmation of their existance?